Feeling poopy
Tuesday night. I had to cancel out on my walking date with Ang tonight because I've got this terrible tummy pain thing going on. Owwie, owwie, owwie. I want someone to come over and rub my tummy. Mommmmmmmmmmmmy!
In other developments, I want to say something emotionally raw to TCB. I miss him so much and I want him to know that I'm glad he's in my life and that I wish we could see more of each other. Do you think it would be a bad thing to send him an email or leave him a voicemail telling him so? (There's no way I could tell him that in person on the phone. He'd either die or say nothing and then I'd be frozen with awkwardness.) I know you're not supposed to tell guys what you're feeling and he's definitely not a "sharing our feelings" kind of person, but my heart is just so full that it feels like it's going to burst. I guess I should just enjoy the feeling and wait, but I'm not a waiting sort of girl.
Mommmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmy!!!
In other developments, I want to say something emotionally raw to TCB. I miss him so much and I want him to know that I'm glad he's in my life and that I wish we could see more of each other. Do you think it would be a bad thing to send him an email or leave him a voicemail telling him so? (There's no way I could tell him that in person on the phone. He'd either die or say nothing and then I'd be frozen with awkwardness.) I know you're not supposed to tell guys what you're feeling and he's definitely not a "sharing our feelings" kind of person, but my heart is just so full that it feels like it's going to burst. I guess I should just enjoy the feeling and wait, but I'm not a waiting sort of girl.
Mommmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmy!!!
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I remember those days of not being sure where a relationship was going... hoping for more and wondering if he was thinking the same. Hope things work out!
If you can inject some humor into it, that might make it a little easier for TCB to deal with. If you have a flair for drawing, send him a little comic. Panel one: Denise before TCB (looking bored and sad). Panel two: Denise after TCB (looking happy and confident). Maybe a co-worker could be in frame, saying something like "Wow, what happened to HER?" or something.
That would get the point across w/out seeming too "accusatory" -- that may seem like a harsh word, but just to give you my POV on the subject, I always feel trapped and pressured by the types of comments you are thinking of making. "I love having you in my life and I'd like to see more of you" sounds (to me) like: "I can't function without you now, and we don't see each other enough -- you aren't fulfilling my needs!!"
Crazy, but true. You have to put it through the "Difficulty with Emotions" translator, which is very similar to putting it through the Guy Translator. (grin)
Sending soothing tummy rubs your way...
It's the unusual guy that's not going to be put off by you saying what you want to say right now. And he just may be one of those unusual but you can't be sure of that at this point - you really just don't know him well enough. You haven't known him that long, from what I can tell.
Keep it low-key Denise. You can be happy about what you have here, but I think should keep some distance as well - not just for him, for you.
Sorry if this comes across as cynical. Good luck. And feel better.
Hope your tummy's feeling better soon!
My instict was. Do it!, Heh. But then I am married to my highschool sweetheart and am a hopeless romantic.
I think the, "I am so glad that I met you and love spending time with you" sounds great!
Of course in my head I am thinking spill your heart he takes you in his arms and you spend the night cuddling all vunerable and all.
Heh, yeah I could never date. I would get so screwed, lol.
Oh sweets! Feel better soon.
Take care.
smoochesxx
Ang
I do find that men are more intrigued by coyness, for whatever reason. That kind of thing normally makes girls nervous! :D