Feeling poopy

Tuesday night. I had to cancel out on my walking date with Ang tonight because I've got this terrible tummy pain thing going on. Owwie, owwie, owwie. I want someone to come over and rub my tummy. Mommmmmmmmmmmmy!

In other developments, I want to say something emotionally raw to TCB. I miss him so much and I want him to know that I'm glad he's in my life and that I wish we could see more of each other. Do you think it would be a bad thing to send him an email or leave him a voicemail telling him so? (There's no way I could tell him that in person on the phone. He'd either die or say nothing and then I'd be frozen with awkwardness.) I know you're not supposed to tell guys what you're feeling and he's definitely not a "sharing our feelings" kind of person, but my heart is just so full that it feels like it's going to burst. I guess I should just enjoy the feeling and wait, but I'm not a waiting sort of girl.



Karen said…
Hi Denise, Michele sent me.

I remember those days of not being sure where a relationship was going... hoping for more and wondering if he was thinking the same. Hope things work out!
War Eagle said…
Hi, Thanks for the visit to my blog from Michele's. About your feet hurting, you should look into ECCO walking shoes. I wear them and have no pain when exercising and walking. They are a little expensive but, worth it.
Shannin said…
I think you can go low key with something like, "I just wanted to let you know how glad I am to have met you." That doesn't come off too strong, especially if he's not ready for hearing, "I can't live without you." Let him know you enjoy his company and he makes your days sunnier.

Sending soothing tummy rubs your way...
I'm not one to give advice, especially on romance, but keep in mind what you just wrote about his personality before making any decisions.

Hope your tummy's feeling better soon!
Anonymous said…
My feeling is to just wait. It's hard, I know, but wait. Keep your power. Enjoy your full heart and there will come a time when the moment's right.
Mamato2boys said…
Wow I would be an awful dater.
My instict was. Do it!, Heh. But then I am married to my highschool sweetheart and am a hopeless romantic.
I think the, "I am so glad that I met you and love spending time with you" sounds great!
Of course in my head I am thinking spill your heart he takes you in his arms and you spend the night cuddling all vunerable and all.
Heh, yeah I could never date. I would get so screwed, lol.
Oh sweets! Feel better soon.
Take care.
La said…
Hmmm, I'm going to post the opposite advice. I don't think there's anything wrong with telling him how you're feeling. My philosophy has become about honesty, not about contriving some creative way of telling him how you feel and hoping he'll get the point. I think the key is in telling him, but also letting him know that you are not telling him because you are expecting any reciprocated feelings - but that you just want him to know how you feel. As long as you can TRULY give up the need to have him respond in a particular way, that is. My 2 cents (which, after conversion from the Canadian dollar amounts to about a penny and a half!).
Amy said…
I would wait. You have a higher chance of scaring him off by telling him than to keep him around. I know it is hard. When I met my husband, I knew a week later that he was the man I wanted to marry, but I dare not tell him! Most guys dig chics how are aloof and not clingy. Let him know by your actions and expressions. And all the while repeat to yourself "This is not a big deal, he is not a big deal, I am one cool chic, I am SO COOL." Say it over and over and over. It just might work.
brent said…
its probably too late to offer advice as i missed this post yesterday! :) but i'd sort of act chill and not go too heavy with it even though that is how you feel. you could leave a vmail that says, i had a good time at dinner last night, hope you are having a good day. something simple like that. or i had a good time at lunch, or coffee etc. keep a little mystery and challenge to the whole deal. does this make any sense? maybe i'm looking at this all wrong.
brent said…
like maybe he asks you out to dinner some time and you reply with, "oh i'd like to but i'm going out with the girls that night!". heehee. keep him guessing for a while. maybe i like too much of a challenge though.

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